Modern Men vs. Traditional Men

Most modern men don't care if their wife works or decide to stay home and take care of the kids. Most modern men want their wives or girlfriends to be able to take care of themselves financially and in many other ways. Most modern men are there own person and don't need their wife or girlfriend to do everything for them, because they realize they are more than capable of doing it themselves. Most modern men are independent and want the same for their wives. Most traditional men want their wives at home taking care of kids, cooking, cleaning the house, and doing the laundry. Some traditional men call their wives constantly, not wanting anything just checking up on them. Their wives have no privacy, no freedom, basically no life. They both show respect for women but in different ways. I am a modern female, I want a modern man, well that's what my dad thinks will be best for me. He says he feels sorry for the man I marry if he is traditional. My dad is a very traditional man. For example he has to meet everyone I date and hang out with. I am against a man being over me, we should be equal in the relationship, as far as taking care of the kids, the house, and the finances. If a man can't handle it then he should look for someone else.